Roberta & Adam

Monday 26th July 2027

Pen and watercolour illustration of Middleton Lodge, a Georgian house with a pedimented front and planting along the base

The Day

Monday 26th July 2027

Days
Hours
Minutes
Seconds


The Ceremony

St Mary's Church

North Stainley

The Reception

Middleton Lodge

To follow the ceremony


Typical late July weather in North Stainley

20°C
Average high
11°C
Average low
05:05 – 21:25
Sunrise to sunset

Yorkshire in July is usually warm and bright with the odd shower — a live forecast will appear here in the fortnight before the wedding.

Reply to our invitation

Kindly Reply

RSVP

Kindly reply by 28th June 2027. One form per invitation please — you can name everyone invited below.

Will you be joining us?

Schedule

The Order of the Day

Timings are still being finalised, so this is the shape of the day rather than the clock. Times to be confirmed

The Evening Before

Sunday 25th July

If you are arriving before the 26th and have a free evening on the 25th, do join Bobby and Adam for a casual drink at the Bull Inn at West Tanfield. The beer garden there is one to beat, facing out onto the River Ure.

The Wedding Day

Monday 26th July

  1. Transport departs Middleton Lodge for those who need it (parking spot for the bus to be confirmed)
  2. Arrive at St Mary's Church, North Stainley
  3. Ceremony begins
  4. Ceremony ends, followed by confetti and photographs
  5. Head to Middleton Lodge, by the transport provided or your own means
  6. Cocktails and canapés
  7. Head to the marquee, find your seat on the chart and take your place
  8. Speech by Andrew Read
  9. Starter served
  10. Speech by Andrew Young
  11. Main course served
  12. Speech by Leo Harrison
  13. Dessert served
  14. Speech by Adam Young
  15. Return to the Main House for the cutting of the cake
  16. Return to the marquee for the first dance
  17. Dancing
  18. Bacon butties
  19. 00:00Everyone must leave the marquee — anyone who would like to keep the party going is very welcome to join us in the cellar
  20. 02:00Bedtime

The Morning After

Tuesday 27th July

Brunch at Middleton Lodge.To be confirmed

We are confirming whether breakfast is included for guests staying at the Lodge, and what the arrangement will be for anyone who would like to join us for it.

Where to Stay

Accommodation

Details of rooms at Middleton Lodge and nearby options are on their way.To be confirmed

Accommodation details

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Room list, rates and booking link

Send through the accommodation copy and this becomes a proper list of rooms and nearby stays.
North Stainley cricket ground, opposite St Mary's Church
The cricket ground opposite the church, where guests driving themselves will park.

Getting Parked

Parking

St Mary's Church

For those travelling to the church in their own car, parking is available opposite the church on the cricket ground. There will be a sign at the gated entrance — simply cross the road after parking and the church is directly opposite.

Middleton Lodge

For those staying at Middleton Lodge, free parking is permitted on the grounds.

Getting Here

Travel

If you are using public transport to join us, please see the options below.

By Train

St Mary's Church
Thirsk Railway Station — a 20 to 25 minute drive
Middleton Lodge
Darlington Station — a 10 to 15 minute drive

By Bus

St Mary's Church
Nearest stop To be confirmed
Middleton Lodge
Shoulder of Mutton — a 15 to 22 minute walk

By Taxi

Please consider pre-booking if you are not staying at Middleton Lodge.

  • Uber
  • Ripon Taxi Service
  • Andrews Taxis Ripon
  • Tony & Gill's Taxis
  • Amalgamated Taxis

For those travelling by car and passing through Leeds, Leeds Skelton Lake Services is a nice place to stop and stretch your legs. It is where Bobby and Adam break their own journey from Liverpool up to the area.

In the Marquee

Seating Chart

The seating plan will appear here nearer the wedding, and will also be displayed as you enter the marquee. To be confirmed

Seating chart

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Table plan, at least 2000px wide

With Thanks

Gifts

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all.

However, if you wish to give something, we would be incredibly grateful for contributions towards our honeymoon. We cannot wait to make memories that will last a lifetime.

There will be a card box at Middleton Lodge.

Good to Know

Questions

When is the RSVP deadline?

28th June 2027. Please be advised that we will not be chasing replies, so if we have not heard from you we will assume you are unable to attend.

Can I bring a plus one?

Unfortunately we can only accommodate those named on the invitation.

Are children allowed?

To allow all our guests to relax and enjoy themselves, we have chosen to make our special day adults only.

What is the dress code?

Formal, or black tie optional.

What colour should I wear?

Please avoid white, cream and ivory. Otherwise, wear whichever colours you feel your best in.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

Both.

Am I allowed to take photos?

Please do not take photos during the ceremony. After that you are welcome to take as many as you like, and there will be disposable cameras for everyone to use at Middleton Lodge.

Will there be an issue wearing heels on grass?

There are pathways throughout, and no need to walk on the grass unless you would like to. If you do and you are worried about your heels sinking, bring a set of heel covers.

Can I bring my own confetti?

Confetti will be provided at the church for you to grab a handful and throw. If you would rather bring your own, please make sure it is natural, biodegradable and either white or green.

Is there an open bar?

Bar arrangements, and whether it takes card or cash, are still being finalised. To be confirmed

Who should I contact with additional questions?

Please feel free to contact Bobby and Adam with any questions in the run-up to the wedding:

On the 25th and 26th of July, however, please contact Adam only — Bobby will be otherwise occupied.

While You Are Here

In the Area

Whether you are joining us for the day or making a longer trip of it, North Yorkshire has plenty to explore. From beautiful market towns and historic landmarks to scenic walks and cosy pubs, we hope you enjoy discovering the area where Bobby grew up.

Explore Ripon

Just ten minutes from North Stainley, the cathedral city of Ripon is full of independent shops, cafés and restaurants. Highlights include:

  • Ripon Cathedral
  • Ripon Market Square
  • The Workhouse Museum
  • Traditional Yorkshire pubs and tea rooms

Fountains Abbey & Studley Royal

One of Yorkshire's most spectacular attractions, Fountains Abbey is a UNESCO World Heritage Site with stunning abbey ruins, landscaped gardens and beautiful walking routes.

Brimham Rocks

If you enjoy the outdoors, Brimham Rocks offers incredible natural rock formations with panoramic views across Nidderdale. Ideal for a walk and some fantastic photographs.

Masham

Pronounced Massam! A charming market town, known for:

  • Traditional Yorkshire pubs
  • Independent shops
  • Local cafés
  • The Black Sheep Brewery
  • Theakston Brewery — home of Old Peculier

Newby Hall & Gardens

A beautiful stately home surrounded by award-winning gardens, woodland walks and riverside views.

Fun fact: this was Bobby and Adam's second choice for the wedding venue.

Walks Nearby

If you would like to enjoy the Yorkshire countryside, we recommend:

  • Hackfall Woods
  • Studley Royal Deer Park
  • Ripon Canal Walk
  • Fountains Abbey Estate
  • Kilburn White Horse

Do not forget your walking boots.

Food & Drink

Breakfast & brunch

  • Oliver's Pantry
  • The Olive Tree at Tates
  • The Coach House at Middleton Lodge

Pubs

  • The Bull Inn, West Tanfield
  • The Bruce Arms, West Tanfield
  • Shoulder of Mutton Inn, Middleton Tyas

Dinner

  • Grantley Hall
  • Where There's Smoke, Masham
  • The Forge at Middleton Lodge

We cannot wait to celebrate with you, and we hope you enjoy exploring this beautiful corner of North Yorkshire while you are here. Safe travels — and we will see you soon.